“Going Against The Grain”
Females in Powerlifting Part I
By: Ericka Lawson
Diablo Barbell Club
We are raised to be fragile, dependent, submissive. For to go against these
things wouldn’t be feminine or ladylike. Young boys are told to shake of their
bumps and bruises, while young girls are soothed and cuddled when injured. We
are taught to say the right things and not to be bold with our thoughts and
opinions, for if we do we will be perceived as bitchy.
I never fit that mold. I am strong, independent and dominant. I say what I
think and stand by every word of it, whether or not it is politically correct.
This can make aspects of life very difficult. Most men are intimidated and
women catty. So, where would I fit in?
All my life I had been an athlete and tomboy of sorts. I have always loved the camaraderie
of being on a team and the thrill of competition and victory. I loved training,
the burn and the sweat. Add to that the fact that I am a “BIG” girl, a solid
5'10" 197lbs. I didn’t quite fit the mold for anything, or so I thought.
As luck would have it I stumbled over a Q&A where Dave Tate talked about
his wife getting into powerlifting. I was inspired and began to research. In
powerlifting it’s ok to be “BIG”, intense, strong and female. That was it. I
was sold and sought out a gym to train at and a coach to train with. I found my
home at Diablo Barbell.
There it is ok for me to be a smart ass and talk like a sailor. I can walk in
wearing a skirt and heels and twenty minutes later be taking max squat
attempts. No one there expects me to be fragile and feminine. They expect me to
be strong and work my ass off.
Women are constantly looking for ways to empower themselves yet are afraid to
go against what society deems appropriate behavior for a woman. Powerlifting is
empowerment in its purest form. Raw strength. Proof that women too can be
strong and still be women. For so long outsiders have viewed strong women as
masculine. It is time for that to end. More and more at powerlifting
competitions women, attractive and beautiful women are getting under the bar.
Proving that strength doesn’t have a square jaw and a deep voice. Proving that
breasts and a pretty face aren’t a sign of being fragile.
Powerlifting is a sport that is very misunderstood. That lack of understanding
is magnified if you are female. “You are going to hurt yourself.” “You are
going to have problems when you are older.” “Your muscles are going to get all
big and manly.” Most people just don’t get it. Yet, the bar understands. No
matter how hormonal you are or whether or not you had a good hair day. The bar
understands. Everything else can go wrong, but when you get under the bar you
have the opportunity to make it all right. A place to take out all of life’s
stress and daily frustrations. If more women knew what kind of a stress release
lifting is they might give it a whirl.
This generation of women has the opportunity to “go against the grain” and
teach our daughters that strength isn’t exclusive to men. To defy the magazine
covers adorned with sickly thin models and teach young girls that being a size
13 is still gorgeous. That beauty can be found with chalk on her hands, a lever
belt on her waist and a muscular physique. That is my goal as a woman, a powerlifter
and mother of a seven year old daughter. To empower the next generation through
weight training and powerlifting. Help young girls to see the benefits of being
strong in mind and body.
Powerlifting, it’s the squat, bench and deadlift. Yet it is so much more.
Especially for a woman.